Wet dream is not sin for men, but menstruation is sin for women?

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Pritha Sharadi (Translated by Tinni Rahman):

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Every man should at least once experience PMS (Premenstrual Syndrome). The period in which the so-called ‘dirty blood’ (?) goes out of a shy (!), weak, female body, men should also face the mood swing like women before the menstruation cycle begins. They should feel like crying all of a sudden, they should also have craving for ice cream and chocolate. Suddenly they should also get erected in lust! (In a way men are always erected so it might not be good idea).

They should get body-ache due to hormonal imbalance, pain in waist, and sudden stomachache before a few days of period. They should also feel like fighting recklessly with the boss at office due to working while tolerating excruciating pain. Even after being IRON MEN, they should get pain that make them hunchbacks, cook while in pain, take care of children with pain, love while in pain, have sex while in pain even when they are not willing, or do the household works being irritated, and work at office.  They should get depressed during this time, get breakouts in the face, and suffer extensive hair-fall. They should look like hell from far away. They should also feel like being pampered by the loved one!

Let all the bad hormones bite like bees together and make their mind numb. Let expression of all the emotions come out at once, beat at once. Let be, let it be. The embarrassment a woman faces during PMS, let all the said tigers called men face it. Even if they don’t see blood at the end, they should at least get severe pain in the lower abdomen once a while. Let them face the embarrassment of their colleagues’ dirty teasing sometimes while walking like a hunchback due to severe pain. Let them hear it once from an unknown person, “What????? Hmmm”. Let them be embarrassed once during buying sanitary pad from the pharmacy while saying “heavy flow” or “regular size” by the irritating gazes of the shopkeeper and the people around.

Yes, it should happen even for once. Men should have this experience at least once in a lifetime to understand that 30 days are not equal for a woman.

“What? Are you on period? Are you unwell? Why are you like this!”

“Yes, I am, so? The woman who gave birth to you, the woman you sleep with or will sleep with, she would also have period, so what? Why do you behave like a jerk?”

Dear men, tell me what period is? Ok, let me explain.

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A woman bears certain number of eggs, like you dear men; they don’t produce billions of sperms. Every month one egg becomes matured in a women’s ovary. The egg then comes to uterus through the fallopian tube, if it fertilizes then it doesn’t get destroyed. If it is not fertilized, it gets destroyed in 3 to 4 days and the layer endometrium breaks down. This broken endometrium layers and its vehicle blood and other bodily fluids mix together and come out of vagina for a few days. This bleeding is called menstruation in easy words. Now you must understand what period is! And why is it so important?

Now you might ask what this PMS is? Why am I saying bad words for the so-called PMS! Women get hormonal imbalance in their body even before they get period. Some hormone levels get raised, while some goes down. Some women feel very depressed during this time, get cravings for sweet, get aroused for sex; other than that getting irritated, becoming prone to fight, having muscle cramps and stomachaches are also common symptoms. At least 80% of the female population of the world suffers premenstrual syndrome.

Now you can come up with a shield, “women are suffering this for ages, why is it an issue now?” It is an issue now because it is intolerable to listen to all those teasing and uncivilized behavior while someone is in physical pain and embarrassment.

“Are you unwell? Do you have period? ”

Yes, I have.

“Do you get periods regularly?”

I am a healthy woman. Why should there be break in my periods?

From the age of 12/13 every girl gets period. They become capable to be mothers. If it is not regular, every woman becomes anxious about what happened, or if there is any hormonal problem. From childhood every girl suffers this pain, a trouble of seven days, if someone gets a stain in the dress then just forget about it! PMS before it starts! And during this time people are ready to be insensitive, to tease and get dirty pleasure. As if period means sex!

Just tell me, you guys regularly get wet dreams. You get dirty dreams if you like any girl outside, on the screen of cinema or on the street. You become excited and start masturbating even by little sexual scenes or if you see a girl’s photo. Be it younger people or older! Swear it, who is not on the list?

How many girls did you see teasing you guys regarding this matter? Or else ask with bright eyes, “How many times did you have it? How many times did you do it?” nobody does, be it shame or modesty, if the relationship is not easy, no woman will ever ask a question like this.

And you? Irritate her with the matters related to her womanhood, motherhood. It doesn’t matter if you know her for two days, or if she is well known or known to you. Learn something dear brothers! Be normal. Start seeing normal things normally at least.

As wet dream is normal, so is menstruation! The abnormal thing is to irritate women by teasing them over this.  If you guys become normal, it will make us feel good. How long should we live with men with sick mentality like your’s in an unhealthy environment?

As you start getting wet dreams after a certain age, women also start getting periods after a certain age!

Dear foolish men, learn to understand women, and be well!!

Originally, the article was published in Bengali in Women Chapter on 21st June, 2017.

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পুরুষের স্বপ্নদোষ পাপ নয়, নারী রজঃস্বলা হলেই পাপ?

Pritha Sharadi is an architect by profession. In her spare time, she likes to write about contemporary socio-political issues, especially issues concerning women. A proud feminist at heart, she is not afraid to speak against social evils.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Tinni Rahman is  a design professional . A multi-talented individual, her passions include travelling and learning new languages. She speaks 5 languages and traveled extensively across Asia and Europe.

 

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